Offender
may
appear
apologetic
and make
promises
that it
will
never
happen
again
Offender
may
violate
protective
or no
contact
orders
Offender
pressures
victim
to
recant
and
reconcile
Victim
complains
to the
commander
expressing
fear of
violence
Victim
expresses
fears
for
safety
Victim
fears
consequences
of
reporting
Victim
minimizes
or
denies
the
abuse
Victim
may be
protective
of the
offender
Victim
may be
reluctant
to seek
medical
care or
cooperate
with
command
or
helping
agencies
Victim
may
express
anger
toward
the
command
Suspicious
physical
injuries
Police
respond
to
arguments
at home
Take the
information
seriously
Ask
directly
if
arguments
have
involved
physical
violence
(slapping,
hitting,
shoving,
etc.)
Report
to
EAP.
Ensure
that
member
cooperates
with the
assessment
process.
Express
that
this is
a
serious
matter
and
precautions
must be
taken to
ensure
everyone’s
safety
Inquire
if there
is a
weapon
or
access
to a
weapon
(e.g.,
loaded
gun).
If
weapons
are
present,
work
with the
watch
commander
and
supervisor
to have
the
weapons
removed
from the
home.
Ensure
victim
is aware
of
available
support
services
(i.e.,EAP,
chaplain,
mental
health)
Ensure a
safety
plan is
in place
for all
family
members
including
children
(consult
with
FAP)
Consult
with
legal if
considering
"no-contact"
order
Periodically
check-in
with
sworn
member
and
family
member.
Stay
involved.
Support
EAP/mental
health
recommendations.
SPECIFIC SITUATIONS
BEHAVIOR/SIGNS
TAILORED SUPPORT
Ongoing domestic
problems with increased
risk of maltreatment
and/or violence. (No
suspicion of current
abuse)
Parties
involved
may deny
potential
for
abuse
Parties
involved
display
anger
and/or
resentment
Talk
with the
squadron
member
in
private
Consult
with
EAP/mental
health
Suggest
appointment
at
EAP/mental
health
Suggest
relationship
therapy/counseling
Consider
referral
to anger
management
classes,
when
appropriate
Consider
referral
to
chaplain
Domestic violence in
which the squadron
member is the abuser
Family
member
complains
of
violence
occurring
at home
Family
member
expresses
fear of
future
violence
Family
member
denies
or
minimizes
the
abuse
Family
member
is
protective
of the
abuser
Family
member
fears
consequences
of
reporting
the
abuse
Family
member
may
appear
angry
and
distrustful
of
command
and
helping
agencies
Notify
agency
mental
health
of the
incident
Participate
with
department
in the
investigation.
Support
EAP/mental
health
recommendations
for
treatment.
Consider
the need
for a no
contact
order--consult
with
legal
Consider
use of
temporary
lodging
or
community
safe
house as
part of
the
safety
plan
Contact
family
member
to
inquire
about
needs
(e.g.,
temporary
housing,
safe
house).
Ensure
family
member
is aware
of
community
programs
and
services
to
include
victim
witness
assistance
programs
and
civilian
court
proceedings.
Ensure
adequate
safety
planning
for all
family
members
Inquire
if there
is a
weapon
or
access
to a
weapon
(e.g.,
loaded
gun).
If
weapons
are
present,
work
with the
watch
commander
and
supervisor
to have
the
weapons
removed
from the
home.
Domestic violence in
which the squadron
member is the victim
Physical
evidence
of
violence
is
present
Victim
expresses
fear/concern
over
abuse
Coworkers
express
concern
over
abusive
situation
Victim's
work
performance
declining,
coming
in late,
preoccupied
difficulty
in
concentrating
Victim
may deny
or
minimize
the
abuse
Victim
may
violate
protective
or no
contact
orders
Victim
may
blame
self for
the
abuse
Victim
may be
protective
of the
abuser
Victim
may be
angry or
hostile
toward
command
and
helping
agencies
Victim
may
appear
indecisive,
lacking
confidence
Notify
mental
health
Direct
person
to seek
medical
evaluation
for care
and
documentation
of
injuries
(e.g.,
photographs)
Participate
in the
investigation
as
needed.
Support
mental
health/EAP
recommendations,
stay
involved
by
periodically
checking
in on
sworn
member
and
mental
health/EAP
Assist
member
in
obtaining
a
restraining
order--work
with
local
authorities
Inquire
if the
person
feels
physically
in
danger
at
present
Inquire
on
concerns
over
weapons
in the
house
Ask
about
available
support
systems
and safe
places